A classroom full of people with different nationalities has proved to be very educational in many ways. Aside from actually practising our Spanish (I have classes everyday between 1 and 3pm), we have had some interesting debates over the last few weeks. Since we are a very international bunch, we tend to talk about our respective countries and represent the general views held by the people. But as British, Italian, Spanish, and German citizens, we have tended to avoid going too deeply into potentially contentious issues such as politics and the Euro. Therefore, we stick to stereotypes and perceptions (which of course are linked to politics) and we have found that perceived ideas of a general nation tend to be true. We all appreciated the following joke:
In fact, we agreed on the majority of this, except for our Italian friends, who disagreed with their contribution to heaven...
Today, we discussed a famous song by well known Spanish pop group 'Mecano', entitled Cruz de Navajas, the lyrics of which tell a story about a young couple who live together but hardly see each other. After analysing the words and ignoring the lovely (and therefore misleading) tune, the man catches the woman having an affair and somehow ends up dead. The song doesn't specify how he is killed, but we each offered our own opinions: the Hungarian suggested he committed suicide after seeing his woman with her lover, our British contribution was that he was killed in a brawl with the other bloke, while our Spanish teacher insisted that our tragic hero would have killed his love to avenge his honour, and the new bloke acted in defence to protect the girl. When I questioned why the man would want to kill his wife, the Spanish reply was: well, she had caused him much pain because he loved her so much and she betrayed his honour. This left me puzzled as I couldn't understand how you can bring yourself to kill someone if you truly love them. The majority of my peers seemed to agree with me, although apparently this reaction in a similar situation is not uncommon in Spain. However, I am still unsure whether this is a cultural difference, or a more a difference of generation or character.
One thing's for sure, I am learning more than just the language here, and I've definitely got a long way to go before understanding the country as well.



